Zen…

It’s not about setting smaller goals and achieving them, it’s about setting bigger ones and showing up every day for them.

The times you spent alone (with yourself) will mould you into a finer person, both on the inside and on the outside.

Don’t wait to feel so good, enjoy the process, savor each moment and let the pain teach you.

If it makes your heart thud like it’ll break open, do it. It may not be worth the while but it’ll feel good.

You don’t have to live such a long life worrying about what anyone would think of you. Those people you so much seek their validations don’t have their lives figured out, they are so dying to be entertained, they’re always gonna talk. You might as well want to do now what you won’t get the chance to do -10 years to come.

So have that mind blowing sex, kiss that hot dude, apply for that dream job, buy that expensive stuff and rock it, write that book – finish it, forgive that person and set yourself free, break up with that toxic partner and move the fuck on, travel to a new city or country… take those 1% chances, in the end it’s all that matters.

If it all works out, amazing!

If it doesn’t, at least you learned something. You won’t have to be in the same place for like ever. You won’t have to live with regrets or resent yourself or someone else for the rest of your life for not even trying.

You don’t have to save the world to feel important, you just have to live – feel with all your heart even if it lasts for a moment, eat what you crave even for a day. Walk with your chest out, your head high, your shoulders back, and with your mind at ease. Put your desires forward, unapologetically. Dare to dream a lot bigger, do the things that scares you the most, go out of your own way to live, and do not stand in the way of other people.

Happy November.