Zen…

to become something, you must first unbecome a lotta things. you have to unbecome the person: who sticks to just one idea, who lets everyone else decide how you should run your life, who eats everything, wears everything, goes everywhere. you must unbecome the person who can’t stand up for themselves. who chickens out when things get rough. you must unbecome the person who acts on hearsays. you must unbecome the person who is afraid of change, mistakes, failures, rejections. you unbecome the person who nags and complains all the time, who is anxious all the time, who is always the victim, who has someone else to blame for every bad thing that has ever happened to them. unbecoming is how you truly become