how you make others feel about themselves say a whole lot about you.
so if you make people feel shitty. you must be a very shitty person as well.
but of course, this doesn’t mean you should unnecessarily cater to people’s egos. you can’t spend your entire life worrying about the petty feelings of others. especially people who are dangerously narcissistic. or grown people who have emotional maturity of a 4 year old.
it doesn’t mean shrink yourself to be digestible, or be a kiss ass, or constantly try to please the overly insecure neighbor
it just means that people who take genuine care of themselves, have boundaries and know their core values will naturally exude the right kind of energy
until next time
remain kind
your “treat yourself right so you can naturally treat others right” girl,
zen
Zen… 
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